Welcome to the World

Emerson Wade Sykes

12/20/10

8 lbs 4 oz

20.5 in

Time for some pics

Here are some pictures of my prego tummy.  They are more for documentation rather than your enjoyment, but I'm sure you'll get a few laughs from them.

-16 weeks-

-20 weeks-

-24 weeks-

-31 weeks-

-35 weeks-

(this is my "I'm smiling only because you're

taking a picture, but I really wish I could go back to bed instead of work" face)

Clumsy me

After breaking three (yes, 3) of our glasses this past week, Will said to me, "I knew we would have to go to plastic someday, but I thought it would be because of our child, not you."

I wish I could blame this on pregnancy, but this was completely just clumsiness.  Oh well.

Here's the latest family picture, taken just a few days ago.  

Thanks to Jenna for the picture. See her blog for more pics.

Isn't it great that fall is finally arriving?  I've never enjoyed the cooler weather more than I do now with the Little Guy on board.  It's so refreshing and crisp, and it helps my swelling go down :)

In other news, we have narrowed down our baby name list and would like to hear your opinions.  To be honest, we are having trouble finding ways to make fun of the names (which I guess is good), so if you come up with any negative criticism, we want to hear it.  Maybe your ideas will make our job a little easier.  Also, we have put a poll on the side to see which name is your favorite.  We are glad we get the final say, but ideas from others are always nice, right?  

Name possibilities:

Emmett Wade

Emerson Wade

Lincoln Wade

Harrison Wade

Wade is a family name; the other names we just like.  What do you think?

Boy or Girl?

We had our ultrasound this week - and after long debates, we decided to find out what we would be having.  Luckily, our baby was not shy at all.  We are so excited that we'll be having a little boy coming!!  He is adorable and perfect and we can't wait to meet him.  

A profile of our Little Guy

shorted

We have moved - again - and really love our new apartment.  It is perfect for us, especially with a baby coming.  Only one thing has been kind of annoying just a little bit: our microwave shorts out all our kitchen outlets.  


awesome.


So for the time being, our microwave is housed by our laundry room shelf.

update

Will & I got to hear our munchkin's heartbeat the other day!  So much fun. 

For those who were asking, I am due December 19th and am 14 weeks along so far.  I feel great during the daytime, but when evening hits, so does the nausea.  It lasts until I fall asleep at night.  Other than that, I'm feeling fine & loving being pregnant.  

As far as everything else goes: Will likes school, I like work, & we both like the ward. We are having fun spending time with family, catching up with old friends, & making lots of new ones.

Priceless

2 shirts = $55

2 hats = $30

2 watches = $40

The look on your face when you realize there are 

3

people in the picture...

Priceless. 

Dance with me, Love

Will & I have both danced before, but we’ve never really danced together.  I used to compete in ballroom dance when I was young, and Will took social dance at the Y.  We’ve both expressed our love for ballroom multiple times, but have never actually danced with each other.  

Well now that’s changed. 

I enrolled us in a 10-week ballroom class for couples.  On Friday nights, we get to go to ballroom class and learn a new dance!  It’s so much fun and we’ve really enjoyed refreshing our memories of all the dance steps while trying them together.  Such a blast.  So far, we’ve reviewed the box waltz, salsa, two-step, lindy swing, and jive.  We were out of town for the fox trot, but we didn’t mind (not a huge fan of the fox trot).   

How cool is this?!  In general, most couples don’t really know how to dance, and I wish that could change.  But if we ever get invited to a grand ball, at least Will and I will be able to waltz alongside everyone there :)  

the lemon tree

Although I have to brave a weed patch to get to it, I make frequent trips to get to my neighbor's lemon tree.  I have been so lucky to have an endless supply of lemons & I will sorely miss it.  I have enjoyed tasty meals with a hint of lemon in them, as well as other scrumptious things like shortbread cookies with lemon curd, lemon blueberry syrup, & lemon vinaigrette.  The lemons have kept my disposal fresh & clean, too!

The lemons have served as centerpieces as well:

I even enjoyed a lemon bath:

 - hello heaven-

 

Thanks, neighbors, for my 6 months of making lemonade out of lemons.

Conference & Easter Weekend

Happy Easter!

For the Saturday morning session of conference, we enjoyed having Mom & Dad over for breakfast.  We had pancakes, maple sausage, eggs, fruit, & biscuits & gravy.  

Mmmmmm :)

What a great conference it was.  My sister even got to sing in the institute choir during the Saturday afternoon session - lucky!  I love how I can always count on a small handful of talks speaking directly to me.  How inspired our prophets are!

Goodbye

When I first moved to Arizona, I could name a million reasons why I didn't really want to live here.  The only reason I kinda wanted to live here was because it didn't snow.

After almost 2 years here, I've grown partial to and even developed a love for Arizona.

And now, in no particular order, a few things I'll miss once we move back to Provo (and I apologize in advance for all the cell-phone pics - I don't always have my camera when there's a great moment):

1. Starbucks runs & late-night drop-in's from Mom & Dad

(thanks to HBO's The Pacific for providing this special hat moment)

2. The Heat

3. Clouds and evenings sunsets

(not bad for a completely unedited cell phone pic, huh?)

4. Ward friends

5. Great boss/job

6. Hot air balloons on my way to work

7. the awesome road system, speed limits, & easy freeway access

8. the local cuisine

(Gecko Grill, Paradise Bakery, 

Pei Wei, & Nando's, to name a few goodies)

9. my neighbor's lemon tree that covers part of my yard, hence, all the wonderfully delicious meals & desserts with lemon in them
(more on this later)

10. Oscar, one of my biggest fans

when something leaves

You don't realize how good something is until it's gone.  This time, it's my boss.  I don't normally like posting anything about work, but I just have to mention how much I miss my old boss.  Anselmo is one of the great bosses I've had.  He is one of 2 bosses who have left such an impression that I just about cried when he left.  He transferred to another site to be their director, meanwhile leaving my site director-less.  We got a temporary GM since our current one is also out for a while on leave.  The temporary is not anything like Anselmo, and I'll be honest: I don't like it. 

Anselmo was the boss who would ask me how I was doing everyday and really cared what my response was.  He would ask me my opinion about things work-related and things not related to work at all.  He would chat with me about things he had passion for.  He trusted me and allowed me to use my own judgment only giving constructive criticism when necessary, and never doing it in front of others.  Anselmo was only my boss for 8 months, but I loved going to work knowing that I didn't have to worry about my superiors. 

I got to talk to him on the phone today for a couple minutes.  It was good to talk to him, albeit for only a couple minutes.  I told him I wanted to spend money and he said ok.  That was pretty much it, but it practically made my day. 

I pray my next boss is as good as Anselmo was.

St. Patrick's Day

For St. Patrick's Day, I honored my Irish roots by making potato & cabbage soup.  It was super, and the Irish soda bread I made turned out great as well.  I found the soup online, but the bread is one of Ina's (Barefoot Contessa) recipes.  

One Thousand Days: Part 2

Here are the pictures of our 1000th day:

Will with the banner I made

1000 Hugs and Kisses

 We also ate a meal that was 1000 calories, but the pictures didn't turn out so well.  It consisted of stuff chicken thighs, candied carrots & onions, mustard-roasted potatoes, and stuffing. 
Yum.

One Thousand Days

Today celebrates 1000 days of marriage for Will & me. He has put up with me for 1000 mornings of no make-up, ratty hair, & not getting up when he tells me to. I have had to put up with 1000 mornings of his rooster-tails, scruffy chin, & him telling me to get up earlier than I would like.

However, together we have loved 1000 days of smiling & sassing, teasing & tickle-torturing, wrestling & relying, pampering & praying, movie-watching & magic-making, scaring & surprising, flirting & forgiving, loving & laughing, needing & nudging, hugging & helping, giggling & gallivanting, playing & pretending, kissing & courting.

There isn’t anyone else we would have rather spent the last 1000 days with than each other.

in case you were wondering ...

 ... yogurt does sooth the sting from jalapeno oils on hands.  my ever-so-handy sister googled it and i am reaping the rewards.  thanks google, and jenna. 

Our celebration

After hearing about our great news, we just had to celebrate. Lucky for us, Valentine's Day was just around the corner, so we treated ourselves well in honor of both occasions.

We dined at Fleming's Prime Steakhouse and ordered their Valentine's special. Filet mignon and lobster tail were served with potatoes and grilled cauliflower.



For dessert, heaven sent us creme brulee with a chantilly creme and fresh berries.



We thoroughly enjoyed being treated as royalty and won't soon forget this Valentine's Day.

A Reason to Celebrate!!!

Some you know that my career goal has been to become a physical therapist. Well, I am happy to report that this WILL HAPPEN!!! I have been accepted into the Doctor of Physical Therapy program at Rocky Mountain University of Health Professions in Provo, Utah. Yay!

School starts in May of this year which means we will totally be busy the next 2 months getting ready to move up to Utah again. The school will be 2.5 years long so I will graduate in December 2012. We are totally excited to move somewhere that is familiar and where we have family and friends.

Check back soon to see how we celebrated!

Read with caution: Includes Venting

Dear Yet-to-be-Named Collection Company,

Please stop calling my work phone looking for the girl who had my job before I did.  I've told you a million times that she no longer works here and can't be reached at this number and "NO, I do not have her new number nor will I transfer you to HR to verify her non-employment at my location."  How many times do I have to say this to you in my obviously-annoyed yet courteous tone?  I've told you to do whatever you have to in order to get my number off your list because no matter how many times you call, you won't find her here. 

Also, while you refuse to say over the phone for which company you are calling, I know you're a collection company because another company left their name and I googled it discovered who you people are that keep harassing me. 

And just to let you know, I laugh at the messages you leave because I've never heard someone threaten me via voicemail.  "If I were you, I would be very scared. And if you do not return my call, I can only wish you the best of luck."  Wow, really?!  If you are required to make outbound phone calls to people who owe you money, don't you think kindness and courtesy would be the desired way to do get them to work with you?  Besides, there's something to be said for customer service, which you are far from displaying. I have an example for you of a poor customer service agent from your company and I would like to file a complaint against her along with all the other agents who have called me. 

Me:  "Hello?"
Rude Agent #57: "Yes, may I speak with _______?"
Me: "She no longer works here."
Rude Agent #57: "Ok, well do you have a number I can reach her at?"
Me: "No I don't.  And will you please stop calling me trying to reach her, because she DOESN'T WORK HERE ANYMORE."
Rude Agent #57: "I can't do anything about that. And if you won't give me the information I'm looking for, then I won't do anything for you."
{insert utter disbelief and shock from being spoken to like this by a complete stranger}
Me:  "Wow."
{hang up on Rude Agent #57}

You see my frustration? You are impossible to work with, and I refuse to answer your phone calls to try to help you anymore.  In the future, I will only allow you to leave threatening messages that I will laugh at and discard.

Cordially,
Ticked-off Debt-free Citizen



Side note:
After letting one of my coworkers hear the messages they leave, he said, "Oh ya, I remember the days of collection calls.  Haha...they don't leave you alone until you pay, that's for sure." 
{insert more disbelief and shock from hearing that this is a somewhat common occurrence for people my age}

Really, though.  I get calls from the same 3 collection companies at least twice each week and have been since I started in my position...6 months ago.  How long does it take to get her name off your list?!

I'm fed up with these people.

Weeds

Weeds

Oh, how thou groweth too well,
And plagueth us into a spell
Where we can’t sustain
Your lives, nor maintain
A yard in which we love to dwell.

We wisheth thou wouldst die.

Not mundane, right?

This blog has unfortunately become the typical New Year’s Resolution which starts off great but then slowly gets forgotten or abandoned because the ‘newness’ and excitement wears off. This same thing happens to my journals. I’m great at writing consistently for a few weeks, but then there seems to be nothing new to write about and so the writing dwindles into nothing.

I didn’t plan for this to happen. I had big plans for this blog, even including the turn-your-blog-into-a-book idea. I don’t know how to fix this problem either, but I thought I would start trying to see the things I do not as mundane, but rather interesting and worth my time spent putting them into words.

It may take some time, considering we have the same schedule every day: wake up, go to work, go home, and go to bed. I know that has ‘Super Exciting!’ written all over it, but I’m grateful we do that every day because it means that we can think and act for ourselves, and we have jobs and a roof over our heads.

The posts that follow will hopefully be worth reading. We plan on posting about probably less-than-exciting yet valuable adventures, opinions, and thoughts.